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This is a space for dream words, love words, flying words, fall down, and get up words. First it begins inside your heart. Something moves, opens, frees itself. And now you feel a rhythm breaking it's long silence. This is going to be good. Be creative. Be generous. Be bold. For it is here that we begin to tell our story.

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

34 Weeks

Every week I get an email from  http://www.babycenter.com/  updating me on what my baby is doing, how she's developing, what to expect, and lots of other fun facts and thoughts/advice from other woman expecting around the same time as me. I love it. 

Here's what they had to say at 34 weeks...


How your baby's growing:
Your baby now weighs about 4 3/4 pounds (like your average cantaloupe) and is almost 18 inches long. Her fat layers — which will help regulate her body temperature once she's born — are filling her out, making her rounder. Her skin is also smoother than ever. Her central nervous system is maturing and her lungs are continuing to mature as well. If you've been nervous about preterm labor, you'll be happy to know that babies born between 34 and 37 weeks who have no other health problems generally do fine. They may need a short stay in the neonatal nursery and may have a few short-term health issues, but in the long run, they usually do as well as full-term babies.

How your life's changing:

By this week, fatigue has probably set in again, though maybe not with the same coma-like intensity of your first trimester. Your tiredness is perfectly understandable, given the physical strain you're under and the restless nights of frequent pee breaks and tossing and turning, while trying to get comfortable.
Now's the time to slow down and save up your energy for labor day (and beyond). If you've been sitting or lying down for a long time, don't jump up too quickly. Blood can pool in your feet and legs, causing a temporary drop in your blood pressure when you get up that can make you feel dizzy.
If you notice itchy red bumps or welts on your belly and possibly your thighs and buttocks as well, you may have a condition called pruritic urticarial papules and plaques of pregnancy (PUPPP for short).
Up to one percent of pregnant women develop PUPPP, which is harmless but can be quite uncomfortable. See your practitioner so she can make sure it's not a more serious problem, provide treatment to make you more comfortable, and refer you to a dermatologist if necessary. Also be sure to call her if you feel intense itchiness all over your body, even if you don't have a rash. It could signal a liver problem.


Slide your way to slumber "In the third trimester, turning over in bed is a nightmare. The solution? Big satin pajamas and even satin sheets — the slipperiness of satin helps tremendously!" — Carrie


Pretty spot on for the most part. Dr. Judd says she is more like 4lbs right now, but it's hard to tell for sure. She is head down and ready to go, but no sign of her arriving early... yet. 
As far as me... they always get it perfect. 
Next Dr. appointment is October 8th. They'll test me for group B strep at that vist, then we're on to weekly appointments to make sure we're on top of things and are ready for her when she's ready to come.


A word of advice to my pregnant friends... sign up for emails from babycenter. Go here to register. It's free. You'll get a weekly email like the one above, links to learn more about things like PUPPP and preeclampsia, assurance that you aren't crazy and that what's happening to you is normal, and the option to send the email to your significant other so that he can better understand what you're going through. Truly a brilliant set up. 







Thursday, September 20, 2012

Argh Mateys!

That's right. We did it. We went to Krispy Kreme on National Talk Like a Pirate Day. We waited in line for just over 2 hours and we came home with 4doz. free donuts. Worth it? absolutely! And, I promised Gina pictures because she wasn't able to make it. So... here ya go!

Next year Gina... you cannot miss this again!

Look at us with our Donuts! I sooo happyyyyy!!!
Little Brother - He makes a GREAT pirate!
Ms. Kaycy - "Arghh"
Jason - I feel like he's up to something...
(this poor guy has celiac's disease and can't even EAT krispy kreme donuts! But he was a good sport and came with us anyway just to get that extra dozen. Awesome!)
I think Krispy Kreme is CRAZY for offering a promotion like this. I'm sure they lost TONS of money. But, I would like to thank them for the Wednesday night adventure, and the free donuts. Krispy Kreme, you have a customer for life. And my kids will probably be addicted too, so... count on a couple lifetimes of loyalty from our family!

Anyone else participate in the madness? If so, I wanna hear about it! Or see pictures! Much love to you all!

Monday, September 17, 2012

A Little Gem

Look what we dug up today!


I promise, it's worth it. Pay attention to the 2nd counselor.

Isn't he just the cutest kid?!?!

Friday, September 14, 2012

The Crib Project... Stage 1

We started our Crib Project last night...

Let's just say... I think I'm in over my head.

Here's the crib before we did anything to it. Just to give you an idea of what we're working with...


Beautiful right? what you can't see is the Permanent Marker writing on the side and the bite marks on the rails. But there's a lot of detail and it will be wonderful when we're done!


We started with a paint/varnish stripper. The instructions say "Spray thoroughly, let sit for 15 minutes, scrape off." Sound easy right? 

Well... Tiave sprayed once, I sprayed over it... we assumed the thing was just about as soaked as it was gonna get. 
Issues we didn't foresee....
1) How the heck are we supposed to scrape those round bars with all those tiny grooves after getting it all sprayed? Goopy Mess.
2) After sanding this all by hand.... our hands just might fall off. 
Oh well. I'm determined that it will be worth it. I love this crib!

Here's what it looked like after we quit for the night...


We had one side rail completely sanded and about a bar and half done. If anyone has the urge to sand something in the near future, hit me up. We've got plenty to do.

I'm really excited to continue working on this with Tiave and get it all done and put together! It's a great way for us to enjoy each other and build something for our little one. I worry that we might not finish on time, so if anyone has any tips that would make it easier, or more time efficient, it would be greatly appreciated! 

We'll keep you updated on how it goes and how it turns out!





Monday, September 10, 2012

32 weeks!

Only 8 weeks to go!

Today was our last monthly appointment! We'll see Dr. Judd again on Sept. 24th, and October 8th, then weekly until she arrives sometime around Nov. 4th!

She weighs about 3.5lbs right now and Dr. Judd estimates she'll be about 7 all cooked and done. 7 is good :) She is also head down and in a great position, so things are going just grand! She has fingernails, toenails, and real hair! (or at least some respectable peach fuzz)
As for me... I can't bend over very far, and I have heartburn all the time... This pic should explain why:

Yeah... my stomach has been flattened like a pancake, and everything is just a lil... squished. But other than that I really am feeling great! I'm blessed to be able to still be working full time, and still have energy at the end of the day to play a little bit. We'll see how long it lasts. She's supposed to double in size!


Projects coming up in the near future:

We got one of those old fashioned cribs from my Aunt for FREE! Yes, it's used. But it's sturdy solid wood and much better than any one we could find at Wal-Mart. We'll be sanding it down, and refinishing it. It'll look brand new when we're done, and I'll be satisfied with it to keep my little one safe and secure while she rests her little head. Now we need to find a bassinet.

Also, we have a prospective home in mind. If all goes well, we'll need to move in, set up the nursery, and get settled before she arrives. :/

Baby Shower will be September 29th for friends AND family. If you would like an invitation, please get me your address. If I already got it from you, don't worry about it. Yes, this counts as a project. Trust me.



Much Love to you all!

P.S.  we went camping last week and the leaves are changing all over the mountain! Prepare to welcome FALL! It will officially be upon us in 12 days!




Friday, September 7, 2012

Date Night How To/Ideas

Disclosure:
   I am not an expert on the subject of dating, so I've scoured the internet and found input from people who are to create this lovely "how to" for date night!

Let's start with 
The Basic Rules:
   1: Make a schedule. Whether you want to have date night weekly or monthly, you definitely want to try to make a set schedule. The hubby and I make ours every Thursday. You can always adjust if someone decides to get married or die or something... but it's always good to have a set day to look forward to and plan for!
   2: Take turns planning! We trade off every other week, but you're welcome to do this however you see fit. If the planning is left to one person all the time, it turns into more of a chore than a date... and that just ruins the whole point of date night. 
   3: Consider your partner. When planning a date, always keep in mind the things that interest your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend. You don't want them to feel like they're stuck doing something they hate. Also... consider their physical condition. Like... It's not a good idea to take a pregnant girl to Jump On It. (This has never happened to us... but it's a good example of what NOT to do. Ever)

And now... Ideas...
Head Out:
  • Take a Hike - Pros: It's free, great workout, time outdoors. Cons: Can't do it in the wintertime... unless you're crazy.
  • Watch a City League/Minor League Games - Pros: You get to spend time outdoors, eat at the concession stands for dinner, baseball rocks. Cons: mosquitos, seasonal
  • Go Bowling - Pros: you get to be active, can do it any time of the year. Cons: bowling shoes :P 
  • Street or County Fair - Pros: free admission, carnival games/rides, fair food, culture. Cons: Seasonal, and you might get fat from all that cotton candy!
  • Volunteer Work - Pros: It's free, you're helping others while helping yourself. Cons: Cons.
  • Stargazing - Pros: There are plenty of parks to go to, snuggling outside, stars. Cons: Seasonal. 
  • Hit the Arcade - WARNING: This CAN be pricey if you're not careful! Those nickles add up, so watch it! Pros: Arcade games, laughter, winning tickets/prizes. Cons: sharing the games with other players.
  • Mini Golfing - If you're lucky enough to have a pass of all passes here in Utah County... you can get in free! Pros: Indoor or Outdoor, a little competition (winner gets....?) Cons: Risking hitting each other with golf clubs
  • Take a Hayride - Pros: outdoors, sightseeing, quality time to talk about life and whatever. Cons: Seasonal
  • Build a Snowman - Pros: outdoors, could turn into a snowball fight, building something together, end the night with hot cocoa. Cons: Seasonal, cold.

Stay In:
  • Bathroom Spa 
    • Take turns giving massages, foot rubs, or whatever tickles your fancy... then go ahead and relax in a bubble bath! Just don't get too relaxed. Falling asleep really kills the mood
  • Movie Theme Night
    • In the mood for Italian? Pop in the Italian job and whip up some pizza! Or is it a Wedding Crashers kind of night? Grab some cake from your favorite local bakery and enjoy in the comfort of your own home! 
  • Ethnic Eats
    • Look up a recipe for your favorite foreign food and see how well you can make it together! Make sure you're both involved... and don't forget the aprons!
  • Carpet Picnic
    • Throw down your favorite blanket, whip up some great picnic foods, and enjoy! Make sure you leave the TV off and just enjoy each other!
  • Ice Cream
    • Make yourself the biggest, craziest, most delicious ice cream sundae ever, then share it!
  • BlackOut
    • Ban the use of all electricity (including cell phones and computers) Light some candles and get creative with dinner. Try playing shadow games on the walls or board games by candlelight!
  • Finish that Project!
    • Refinish a piece of furniture for your home, put together a scrapbook, or build something together! 

Bonus: Especially for the hubs:
  • Take a test drive of his dream car - You might die... but he'll never forget it
  • Hit a sports bar on game night - Even if you're not into the game, you get to go out and get some great wings out of it and he'll love that you are letting him watch the game on date night


What do you guys like to do for date night? How do you make it work for you? I'd love to hear/see your input! 

Happy Friday! 

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Date Night

Date Night Date Night Date Night....

What to do? 

It seems that deciding what to do for date night is one of the most difficult decisions I make all week! Thankfully, Tiave and I trade weeks planning so neither one of us feels like we're stuck doing all the work.

Heading out for dinner is always nice. It can get old though... and expensive.


















Tiave LOVES the movie theater! But being pregnant, I have a hard time sitting in those chairs for more than 5minutes!


And staying home seems boring most of the time....

Personally, my favorite date nights are the ones we spend at home. The ones where we really get to spend time together.
Sometimes it's a redbox and wendys on the couch. Other times we get more creative!

Here's a particular favorite of mine...

We strapped on our aprons (awesome wedding gift btw)



And got together with Chef Smurf


And Whipped up the most amazing pizza of my life! One half Chicken, Bacon, and tomato, the other half all that plus pepperoni and sausage. 



Because date night can be so difficult, but is SO important to maintaining a healthy relationship, I've decided my next post will be a list of date night ideas that won't break the bank and are way better than dinner and a movie! Also, I plan on trying them all out, so expect an update on how they go!







Also, slightly off topic, I'm trying to aim this blog... somewhere. And I'm thinking I mostly just want to relate to people. People who are in similar life situations as me (young and married, pregnant, working moms, crafty friends, etc...) I'd love any input any of you, my blogger friends, may have! :) 

Until next time!